Chivalry is a word we as southerners hear a lot.
But what does it really mean to be a chivalrous gentleman?
Last night after hanging out with some friends at a local pub
and being pushed around and cut in front of by some less than polite guys,
I began to think about why women want a gentleman,
and why some guys are not our perfect knight in shining armour.
First every girls dream is to be a princess.
We all want the fairytale story, wedding and the happily ever after.
This desire is put into our heads since we were little and it is no surprise so many people
end up unsatisfied after the honeymoon stages are over!
But I believe even though women long for a fairytale, all we want is a little respect.
I absolutely love when a guy holds a door for me.
Trying to make my way through the crowds last night at the bar,
I was surprised how few guys let me by, I literally had to push through
and yell excuse me (I guess I am too polite).
Anyways, guys if you want to get a girl you have got to treat her right!
Even if you don't want her, at least extend the courtesy and be the gentleman your mother raised you to be!
And ladies, do not let your man or any other guy walk all over you!
We may be soft and sweet but you have to give respect in order to receive it
and the door swings both ways!
How many frogs do we have to kiss til we find our Prince Charming?
Ok, I'm done ranting!
Enjoy the weekend!
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